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Holy Habits: 20 New Year’s Resolutions (from NCRegister.com)

12/31/2020

 
PictureMaking more time for prayer, including unexpected moments, is a good resolution for a prayerful 2021. (photo: Unsplash)
By: Patti Maguire Armstrong
Published: December 27, 2020
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Goodbye 2020! It has been rough. The year actually incentivized making a good New Year’s resolution. And by good, I mean holy. The world has always let us down — more so in 2020 — but we know that God has something better for us.
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Set goals for self-improvement in this world — such as exercise or quitting smoking — but then, go deeper, down to your soul, and consider ways to grow stronger and closer to God in 2021. Creating holy habits is what inspired me to write Holy Hacks: Everyday Ways to Live Your Faith and Get to Heaven to expand our capacity for holiness while going about the day. Through this approach, our resolutions can pick up speed throughout 2021 as new behaviors easily become habits. Here are some ideas.

1. Give a return on your gifts. When using a gift, say a prayer for the giver. For instance, I say a Hail Mary for the person who gave me a geranium every time I water it. When using clothing or jewelry someone gave to you, say a pray for the giver. 
2. Commit random acts of prayer. Pick someone to pray for throughout your day. It could a politician you hear promoting abortion, or someone in a passing car, or a shopper in the grocery line. If someone cuts you off in traffic, pray for them, and your anger will subside — and you will both be blessed.
3. See Jesus more often. Make a weekly appointment to visit Jesus in the tabernacle. The more time you spend with Jesus, the more he can give to you.
4. Bounce-back. As kids we used to say: “I’m rubber, and you’re glue; whatever you say bounces off of me and sticks to you.” Think of God telling us: “I’m God, and I made you; whatever you do for others comes back to you.” Jesus told us: “The measure with which you measure will be measured back to you” (Matthew 7:10).
5. Become invisible. Look for invisible ways to do good. Skip over a parking spot near the door and pray for the one who will park there instead of you. Put away a shopping cart and pray for the one who left it and the next shopper to use it. “Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you” (Matthew 6:6). 
6. Read the Word. Put a Bible somewhere convenient, and open it up once a day. 
7. Call the manager and praise an employee. When you’ve been given good service, call the manager and report it. It will make that employee’s day. For a bonus, say a prayer for them.  
8. Ask God to arrange your seating and conversations. I know people (and myself) who have had amazing experiences asking God to direct who we sit next to at events or on planes and to direct our conversations (even when socially distanced). Try it, and I think you will be surprised.
9. Fast daily. Jesus fasted for 40 days before beginning his ministry. To integrate fasting into a daily sacrifice, take something out at meals. Skip the fries or ketchup, or don’t put butter on your bread. I’m not suggesting omitting a more serious fast, but why not tap into the power daily?
10. Enjoy the wait. What do you do while waiting for the microwave or while waiting for someone to answer their phone? Turn inconsequential moments into prayers of consequence. 
11. End your purchase with a surprise. “Thank you, and have a good day” is so ordinary that cashiers barely hear it. Try saying, “Thank you, and God bless you” with heartfelt expression. They will hear you, usually smile and sometimes respond: “God bless you, too!”
12. Use sirens and flashing lights as prayer signals. Pray for the person needing the ambulance speeding by and also for whomever is at the end of a police call. For whatever reasons, they could use some extra prayers. 
13. Forget about yourself. Humility leads to holiness. Avoid correcting others if it doesn’t matter. Be last in line. Thank God for failure, and ask him to lead you to what he wants for you. 
14. Talk to people no one can see. Get to know the saint of the day, and ask him or her to pray for you. 
15. Give away something you love. It’s fine to donate the things you don’t use, but occasionally give away a favorite item. It’s the difference between Cain and Abel’s offerings to God. 
16. Wear a crucifix. It’s a silent witness to Jesus’ love and sacrifice.
17. Fast some more. Take a day to give up something like coffee, wearing jewelry or makeup, going on social media, or whatever. 
18. Have a no-complaint day. Dedicate an entire day each week to not complaining. Weather counts.
19. Do a house blessing. Ask a priest to bless your house in 2021.
20. Give unexpected gifts. Release someone from a debt, anonymously give a gift card or money to someone on hard times, or send a pizza or baked goods to a police station or to a nursing home or to hospital employees or to a big family. 
Have a happy and holy 2021!

Christmas 2020 Greeting

12/26/2020

 
Dear St. Thomas More Family,
MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A BLESSED NEW YEAR!
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In this difficult, pandemic time our eyes are focused on our Lord, Jesus Christ, born in Bethlehem for us. He comes to his people to dispel the darkness of despair and brings a new light of hope.
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We are called to reflect the Light of God’s love in our life, our homes, and our parish community. “May we be in this world a ray of that light which shone forth from Bethlehem, bringing joy and peace to the hearts of all.” (Pope Francis)

Jesus Christ, our Lord, can enlighten our hearts with His love, kindness and wisdom. We are grateful for His divine assistance and your dedication, help, and continual support for our parish of St. Thomas More especially in this time of our lives.

“It is Christmas every time you let God love others through you … yes, it is Christmas every time you smile at your brother and offer him your hand.” (St. Mother Teresa)

If we keep Christ in our hearts, Christmas will have no end! May Jesus’ love, joy, and peace remain in your hearts and homes now and throughout the whole New Year.

For our Christmas Mass Schedule & Registration Info, click here.
Peace & Blessings,
​​Fr. Marek Chachlowski
Fr. Robert Lamirez
Deacon Aidan King
Deacon Mike Pontoriero
& The Parish Staff
Please Note: The Rectory will be closed beginning Dec. 23 and will re-open Jan. 4.

Our Christmas Collection & 2020 STM Assistance Appeal

12/25/2020

 

To Our Parish Family,

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St. Thomas More Parish has been truly blessed by your persistence in faith, hope, and love, and dedication to our mission through the pandemic. As we approach the end of 2020 and look forward in faith together, we are comforted, sustained, and strengthened by Jesus’ birth and the gift of Love Himself to us all.

Although operations have been streamlined, regular Sunday Offertory Collections
(through the Lent, Easter, and Ordinary Time) were largely interrupted, and our Carnival Fundraiser needed to be canceled, STM continues to persevere through this shutdown. Your generosity has kept us moving through these times, and we need your help to have STM emerge from 2020 with real strength.

We are asking you, if at all possible, to prayerfully offer (and even increase) your faithful support for our Christmas Collection and our STM 2020 Assistance Appeal. You can…
  • Give through our GoFundMe Page - You can make your parish offering(s) to STM on GoFundMe. Any gift made through GoFundMe goes directly to our parish and will not be assessed by the Archdiocese! Click here to go to our GoFundMe page.
  • Give Online through myEoffering - Part of our parish's weekly and monthly giving happens online. This is a tremendous help to the parish! Click here to go to myEoffering.
  • Mail in Your Donations (& Envelopes) - For those of you who would prefer to not automate your offering, kindly consider mailing in your offertory gifts for these special collections to the parish. Our address is: 210 Horseneck Road, Fairfield, NJ 07004 (Please be sure to notate: Restricted for STM 2020 Assistance Appeal)

As always, we appreciate your support and commitment to our Parish. We thank
you for your understanding and patience
. Rest assured of our prayers for you and for good health, healing, and peace.

May God’s blessing be upon you for a
Merry Christmas & Happy, Healthy New Year!


Peace and Love,
Fr. Marek Chachlowski, Pastor
Fr. Robert Lamirez, Parochial Vicar
& The Parish Staff of STM
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Christmas 2020 Mass Schedule & *Registration* Info

12/24/2020

 
*If you have not already registered to attend Christmas Mass, you must do so by 4 PM on Tuesday, December 22nd at the latest! *
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​Christmas 2020 Mass Schedule
Christmas Eve. Vigil Masses - Dec. 24:
  2:00PM * & 4:00PM Family Mass
(Sorry! Our "Max Capacity" has been reached for these 2 Masses! Other Masses are filling up.)
10:00PM Solemn Christmas Mass 
Christmas Day - Dec. 25:
8:00 AM, 10:00 AM * & 12:00 PM
​Only those who have registered to attend Mass will be able to Check-In & enter the Church. If our "Max Capacity" has not yet been reached for a Mass you might try to attend, additional people will be able to check-in and be seated on a first-come, first-serve basis. Consider participating in the Celebration of the Solemnity of the Nativity of the Lord via live-stream if you are unable to attend.
* Our 2:00 PM Mass on Christmas Eve & 10:00 AM Mass on Christmas Day will be live-streamed through our Facebook Page. The videos will be accessible on Facebook for live viewing and playback at a later time. Please note: Anyone, even without a FB account can view the stream and watch the videos. The General Dispensation to attend Mass in-person from Cardinal Tobin continues on.

As we navigate these difficult times together, we know: "Jesus was born in a humble stable, into a poor family. Simple shepherds were the first witnesses to this event. In this poverty heaven's glory was made manifest. The Church never tires of singing the glory of this night" (CCC 525). May Jesus' birth and heaven's glory which comes to us strengthen our faith, hope, and love!

Due to the COVID pandemic, St. Thomas More Church is especially concerned about
everyone’s health and safety. We have received directives from the Archdiocese of
Newark concerning Christmas Masses. In view of these directives (and their implementation - see bottom of page), attendance for Christmas Masses will be by registration only. Please note, registration has ended as of 12/22 at 4PM.

The directives have been implemented as follows...
We are permitted to have 100 people in Church and 50 people in O’Connor Hall.  It is mandatory for everyone to wear a mask in Church & O’Connor Hall throughout the Mass, along with maintaining social distancing of 6'. There is to be absolutely no congregating (socializing inside or outside Church) besides for the liturgy. An additional Vigil Mass (at 2PM on December 24th) will be celebrated. The dispensation continues to be in effect for those not able to attend Mass.  We will live-stream Christmas Mass. (Note: this information is all pending directives that are sent to us from the Archdiocese of Newark. We will inform you if any changes are made.)

Advent 2020 Reflection Series with Andrew Rubinich

12/16/2020

 
All are invited to join our Seminarian, Andrew Rubinich, for an Advent Reflection Series each Wednesday evening of Advent at 7:30 PM. We will reflect on Faith, Hope, Love, and the Angelus Prayer. The live-stream will be accessible from our Facebook Page. We hope you will join in this meditation!
**Each reflection will conclude with Night Prayer from the Liturgy of Hours.**
To view/print a "Night Prayer Sheet" so you can pray along, click ​here.
​Click here to go to the live-stream. All the videos (and links) to them will be posted here and on the Facebook Page after each reflection:

If you have any questions about accessing the stream or viewing it, please check out this guide for helpful tips and tricks!
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